Reality Wednesday 

by Souldiergirl

I wish each post I presented could be positive and uplifting. But then life happens and I become the sun closing my eyes behind a curtain of clouds. All I feel is grey. I call it a funk or a slump. But that is life isn’t it? Not everyday is sidewalk skipping, sometimes we trip and fall- sometimes…I get right back up and other times, I lay there, against a scalding backbone and wait for my legs to regain strength. 

Either way, I have promised myself to be honest and authentic in this place– a collision of words from a spirit that is overcoming. And overcoming is quite a journey :)) 

  
Recently I had a slump funk and I shared it with my family here. I am overcome with love, moved by your words and truth. I read my messages and think “oh my gosh these people are incredible. They truly listen and they truly care”. So I want to thank each one of you…

Thank you so much for helping me! 

  

You are all my superheroes, armed with love and kindness, helping to rescue this souldiers sadness. 

I appreciate my family here so much. 

Today I say to each one of you:           You completely rock!!

So go now and rock on with your badass gorgeous unique selves! 

Love ya, SG 

   

   
“My truest friends have arrived in my darkest times, swirling around me in a hurricane of love and protection” -SG


90 thoughts on “Reality Wednesday ”

  3. Your the awesome badass one. We all have dark days or worse dark times. This time last year was dark for me, I had to either give up or pick up and tell the world fuck you I’m going to be happy. I chose the latter.
    What people need in those bad times is a hug and a jaffa cake to help them 🙂
    At this distance I can do neither, but I’m sending much love.

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    1. I love the love you send. And how badass is that “fuck you world im gonna be happy!” That’s right- very good choice. I’m at that place too and I believe there is happiness for me and that I deserve it- just as you deserve it :)) two badasses and some Jaffa cake! Well I’m workin on the Jaffa part 😊💖💖

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      1. Haha… “two badasses and some Jaffa cake!” I’m sure we can sure the Jaffa Cakes. You do deserve to be happy and it’s there for you – take it. Sometimes the way we view life needs to change for us to see it, but it’s how you find it. 🙂

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      2. I believe I found them on Amazon! Woot woot!!
        I agree- perspective is so important and can change everything. Kinda cool- cuz it means there’s hope. Thank you for your encouragement- so much.

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  5. Yes, you are right not every day is sidewalk skipping. we fall and we get up and keep going when the strength is regained. You’re not alone in your journey! Keep sharing your beautiful, loving soul with the world and everything will come into place at a due time. Peace and Love to your day and Always! ❤

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    1. Thank you for this. I love what you said- everything will come into place at due time, that is very hopeful. I love it here, like you said- I am not alone. Thank you. Oh and I love your new profile picture up there :))

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      1. You’re so welcome! Due time is God’s time: He’s the one who knows our hearts better than we do. I lean on Him all the time.

        So glad you like my picture (it was a tender moment with a puppy dog!) 🙂
        Love,
        Sibella

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      2. Sibella- wow that is such a beautiful name. Can you tell me about it? It sounds a little like Isabella- my daughter who passed was Isabelle. I love the uniqueness of Sibella :))
        Yes the Lord can see into all of our hearts and our journey impacts others journeys in ways we don’t always know- He has his timing and I need to remember that and continue to let go and let God! ❤️❤️

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      3. Thank you! 🙂
        My mama named me after a girl from a French movie. The original spelling of the name is Cybele and here is more about it: http://www.babynamespedia.com/meaning/Cybele

        Many people who are not familiar with my name call me Isabella…

        Yes, I often forget to let go of me, and let God. This is an encouraging place where we often get reminded of such things. God is working through many amazing people here. Glad to meet you, what is your name?

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  6. Amen hun! As always we are here. And, of course life cannot always be roses and sunshine, but we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and kick that slump right in the behind! We will be positive that this too shall pass. Then, we put a smile on our face, log in to our blog and share with our friends. We’ve all been there. Big hugs to you! xo

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  7. Awwwww, you’re more than welcome.
    There’s this word that I love, and even wrote a poem about. The word is ‘T E N A C I T Y’. I love that word. To live this life, it’s a must.
    🙂 ❤

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      1. I am, thank you. I had no idea how sleep deprived is been. I’m feeling like my sassy self again but I think I’ll crash one more night. Hope your joy is full today precious girl. Love you.

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  12. Souldiergirl you are such an amazing person. Every time I read your posts. I can Feel your authenticity. I truly appreciate and admire your strength. Thank you for your honesty and sharing your story with us. Have a blessed day.

    PS. YOU ROCK TOO. NEVER FORGET THAT.

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    1. Ease! Hey 🙂 how are things in your world? Thank you so much for encouraging me and providing smiles over here. Awww yay! Thank you :)) If I do forget I’ll just ask for a lil reminder ☺️

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    1. Sorry for the delay sweetie- kids are finally in bed so im just sitting down- I literally can’t believe what you have done for me. I immediately wanted to pick up the phone and call you. I am so overcome- you are such a rare treasure, I love you so much Carolina. You are true- so so true. Thank you for this gift for me. It is completely beautiful- I have just been staring at it like wow! She did this for me!! *Hugging you*

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      1. Oh you’re so sweet sis you look great in this portrait! I found the perfect photos to try to bring out your inner soul you’re there deep in your thoughts while looking at us straight in our eyes I thought that was just awesome! The waterfall is your new path in life to follow and nothing is better and relaxing that what pure nature can offer to us…be happy knowing that you’re loved! 🙂

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  17. Please miss can I be waffleman, I can see it now ” is it a breadcake, nope”
    “Is it a bun, nope”
    “It’s WAFFLEMAN”
    Da dada da Da
    Daa daa daa

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      2. Hahah- that’s awesome! Kids are so precious aren’t they. I am glad to hear this- I love to picture you surrounded with smiles and so much love. Thank you for making me smile this morning❤️❤️💃👀😉

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      3. They are indeed soooooooo precious. 3 sets of Twins keep you busy and nervous, ESP and mind melt and all that they do without speaking. Maybe that’s why we get along so well. Grands are definitely different than their Dads were. Smarter, even more inquisitive, but also more vocal. Dads were more introverted until puberty, then….never shut up again. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
        I’ve gotten so used to having a houseful++ I’m not sure what it’ll sound like when my Grands leave next year. Maybe start volunteering again. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
        👀 ♥ * ͜ * ♥ 👀
        Wishing you a wonderful day, my Friend.

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  21. First and foremost, I value your friendship. I feel each word. It is powerful and moving. Some journeys are meant to be traveled alone. While others require a true friend. Friendship is the strongest foundation two people can ever share… I truly believe this. When life gives lemons, plant those seeds, grow more lemon trees. Share these with a friend. We can count the number of seeds in a lemon, but we can never count the number of lemons in a seed. I am glad to have you in my life. You help me with my own journey. I read the passion of your words. In it I realize, we are not clams, we are beautiful human beings, Full of love in this journey through life.

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    1. Wow Wade. Thank you so much- you just dropped some serious words here and I love it! Yes the analogy of the lemon tree is stunning and I visualize it in my mind as a field of beauty that’s come from being in the dust- but look now! Look at what we have! Aw, thank you so much for this. It’s inspiring and yes, real friendship (cuz there’s plenty of fake ones) is the greatest gift. I cherish it so, especially since I have had many false hopes in the way of real friendship so when the real thing comes along- hope sprouts and love grows. Have a fabulous day my friend. Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate very much. Oh and btw yes I do love quotes- short and powerful- absolutely the best- I could pin them all over my house like wallpaper :))

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    1. ok, I want to frame that statement. That is why I love it here and why I keep coming back-because it is positive and love and kindness. I can not even tell you how I have NOT had this in my life and to have it here-is just a dream. Thank you for encouraging me and lifting my spirits when they get low.

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    1. Of course you will-there is no such thing as late here-warriors don’t do that, for we know each is on their own journey and each arrival time will be different. You are very kind and encouraging to me. When you are ready you can grab my hand and I will swoop you up to the front lines :))

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